The Significance of Humankind in day to day life

We are inbound by a lot of people around us. We interact and come across a lot of different people who teach us a lot. Often it comes to a scenario where our lives are always dependant on someone. We look for Affection, Friendship which resembles a bond between two or more people with the almost same mentality. In this Fathomless world, we are always running for all of these and forgetting about ourselves.

We are so attached to people in a way that doesn't let us forget them even if they do. We stalk them, try to talk to them and also sometimes write something for them so that they come back to us. But, in this ball game, we often keep on knocking for those doors which were already closed. We try hard on it with the hope that things would get back on track and everything would be a new normal, but nothing changes.

We often lack an understanding of the significance of certain people differing from our love to our friendship. People don't understand that certain people engage because it benefits them. What we don't understand is their inability to give affection. We often don't understand the difference between Givers and Takers, as we are inbound by their hoax words and calls.

We should remember that the takers can never be givers. They often can take but can never give when asked. Their taking capacity is so high that they get upset when they have to give back a small portion of it. We just don't let those people come in our lives who are showing interest to be a part of the roller coaster ride of our life.

A simple change in our mindset could change a lot. We need to be on the verge of selecting the ones who match our mentality and stop being with those whose goal is a benefit and not friendship, affection. When you bring these hypocrites out that is when everybody would understand the significance of others. If you happened to notice such people and continue to be with them, you will always continue to tumble in their benefits and friendship.

Start giving importance to those for whom your presence is more important than their benefit, understand what change the person could in you during your good and bad times, that's when you would be surrounded by a positive vibe. Stop stressing yourself on such people and move on in life, let them suffer for their doings, for one day all the hurdles around you would vanish at a fast pace and you would see a new sky of your path.

"MEMORIES ARE ALWAYS CREATED THE WAY WE WANT THEM TO BE"