This world has a population of 7.8 Billion people. Everybody here is busy with their own sets of happiness, sadness, and other factors that define their lives in one way or another. In our day to day routines, our lives are affected by different factors that create a positive or negative experience for us. How we take these experiences lies in our hands. But, during these experiences, we often come across many problems.
Our lives are filled with many challenges. All of us struggle with personal problems such as stress, anxiety, depression, self-doubt, addiction, and worries about our health, finances, and future. Our relationships with our partners, children, and other family members are often riddled with conflict, and our relationships with our friends, neighbors, bosses, and co-workers are challenging as well.
On a broader outlook, we are the people who can solve these problems with our own hands. But, humans are such that they always need a helping hand. Who are these helping hands? It can be anyone amongst your surroundings, from peers to strangers. We have no clue how many of these would stand by us during both of our times. We see people often engaged with each other and sharing good bonds for years together.
There are times when your problems are a joke to society or the group of peers you have in your life. It's often the case in many people's lives. People are always looking for hot content around them or even a topic that would involve them in gossip. Everyone around you is happy to hear that you have a problem. Have you come across anyone ready to help but stopped by others? That's where everyone around you stands. You might instead come across people who have brought their problems to you but have once ignored yours.
At this point, even though the other one's problem is small, they portray it in a bigger picture. Your refusal to help will raise a question on the bond you hold with them. It's only a matter of concern if it is their problem as your problem doesn't require any help. People are selfish, and they can go to any extent, even if their dignity is not a matter of concern. You are the caretaker of your problems.
Likewise, many of our problems conclude not being a problem at all by others. But if the same problem is possessed by them, they consider that to be a problem. Sometimes these small little things can create stress and anxiety in our lives even though things have been moving on fine. Of course, to live happily and effectively, we have to think about ourselves first. Our problems might not be the biggest priority to others, but for us, it's the topmost.
Live life the way you want and not by what others want you to. Problems come and go in life, but solving them should always be a part of your list.
We need not share our problems, we should fight them in every way possible be it big or small. If people can be self-centered about their problems why can't you be the same as them? But, don't get discouraged if no one's helping you. Surely one would always make a move. Don't wait, just do it for yourself.
Our lives are filled with many challenges. All of us struggle with personal problems such as stress, anxiety, depression, self-doubt, addiction, and worries about our health, finances, and future. Our relationships with our partners, children, and other family members are often riddled with conflict, and our relationships with our friends, neighbors, bosses, and co-workers are challenging as well.
On a broader outlook, we are the people who can solve these problems with our own hands. But, humans are such that they always need a helping hand. Who are these helping hands? It can be anyone amongst your surroundings, from peers to strangers. We have no clue how many of these would stand by us during both of our times. We see people often engaged with each other and sharing good bonds for years together.
There are times when your problems are a joke to society or the group of peers you have in your life. It's often the case in many people's lives. People are always looking for hot content around them or even a topic that would involve them in gossip. Everyone around you is happy to hear that you have a problem. Have you come across anyone ready to help but stopped by others? That's where everyone around you stands. You might instead come across people who have brought their problems to you but have once ignored yours.
At this point, even though the other one's problem is small, they portray it in a bigger picture. Your refusal to help will raise a question on the bond you hold with them. It's only a matter of concern if it is their problem as your problem doesn't require any help. People are selfish, and they can go to any extent, even if their dignity is not a matter of concern. You are the caretaker of your problems.
Likewise, many of our problems conclude not being a problem at all by others. But if the same problem is possessed by them, they consider that to be a problem. Sometimes these small little things can create stress and anxiety in our lives even though things have been moving on fine. Of course, to live happily and effectively, we have to think about ourselves first. Our problems might not be the biggest priority to others, but for us, it's the topmost.
Live life the way you want and not by what others want you to. Problems come and go in life, but solving them should always be a part of your list.
We need not share our problems, we should fight them in every way possible be it big or small. If people can be self-centered about their problems why can't you be the same as them? But, don't get discouraged if no one's helping you. Surely one would always make a move. Don't wait, just do it for yourself.
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