Life is unpredictable when we come across different types of people and the love we receive from them. You never know that the purest souls come out to be the evils of your relationship. Do you want to have a friendship with benefit (FWB) or a platonic friendship? Do you want to love or play around? Most of the time, we want a platonic friendship or an unimagined love, but later we come to know it was an illusion.
Do you observe the people who make friends for their benefit? Don't you think that their life runs because of this? Should this be changed? Even if you try hard and show them their level, they'll continue to do the same. It's because it's in their blood and they feel that, to grow, to move ahead, to do something they have to do this. They don't follow the path of hard work and determination. They aim to have a beneficial friendship or love because they benefit from it, their hunger turns into selfishness, and even at the same time, they are jealous of you if you do well.
Think about platonic love and friendship. Don't you think it's better and more worthy as things happen as time passes? It turns more into affection as the purpose of this kind is understanding each other pretty well rather than benefiting from them. Just think if you come across these kinds of friends. They'd be jealous of you so they'd try to destroy you, your emotions, and many other things. You'll be a victim of their benefits and, you'll not know what you have to do one day to get rid of them.
Are you willing to be a part of FWB or people whom you can rely on for the rest of your life? But, to do so and be a part of such, understanding everyone's emotions and goals is necessary. A person may look silent and can turn out to be dangerous. Would you want to grow by destroying someone and giving karma to yourself? Ask yourself. There is much more above and beyond this. A deviation of jealousy can bring about the bad in you and, it can turn out to be the change in your life.
Do you observe the people who make friends for their benefit? Don't you think that their life runs because of this? Should this be changed? Even if you try hard and show them their level, they'll continue to do the same. It's because it's in their blood and they feel that, to grow, to move ahead, to do something they have to do this. They don't follow the path of hard work and determination. They aim to have a beneficial friendship or love because they benefit from it, their hunger turns into selfishness, and even at the same time, they are jealous of you if you do well.
Think about platonic love and friendship. Don't you think it's better and more worthy as things happen as time passes? It turns more into affection as the purpose of this kind is understanding each other pretty well rather than benefiting from them. Just think if you come across these kinds of friends. They'd be jealous of you so they'd try to destroy you, your emotions, and many other things. You'll be a victim of their benefits and, you'll not know what you have to do one day to get rid of them.
Are you willing to be a part of FWB or people whom you can rely on for the rest of your life? But, to do so and be a part of such, understanding everyone's emotions and goals is necessary. A person may look silent and can turn out to be dangerous. Would you want to grow by destroying someone and giving karma to yourself? Ask yourself. There is much more above and beyond this. A deviation of jealousy can bring about the bad in you and, it can turn out to be the change in your life.
Realistic friends do not mock you down out of jealousy. They get the fire out of you to make sure you succeed in everything you do. They would be jealous of you, but their jealousy is like love, as they mean a lot about your success and fight for it. They keep an eye on the evil-minded people to keep you safe and moving without any hurdles. Remember, there are only a few who would be like this in your life. Find them and keep them intact as you will never get them once they are gone.
No matter what happens, you don't have to change because the world around you is changing. Few people live with a purpose and, few live for the sake of living. Grow with hard work, earn your dignity as there is nothing in digging someone's grave for your benefit. There are a lot of people who can do the same for you in this life itself. The world also supports FWB's, but what if you prove them wrong? Think with your own will, you grow a ladder, and there is no full stop. If you stop being friends with benefits, then you'll stop them from growing as well. They would have nothing to do and might die of jealousy.
Friends with benefits only teach you the ways of loving you to use you, being good with you on purpose, but not good enough to invest in you. Life always has a purpose, whether you fit this in your brain or not lies upon you. It's better to have platonic friends and love rather than having rats and snakes. Be a person that people want to be with, and not a friend with a purpose of benefit.
No matter what happens, you don't have to change because the world around you is changing. Few people live with a purpose and, few live for the sake of living. Grow with hard work, earn your dignity as there is nothing in digging someone's grave for your benefit. There are a lot of people who can do the same for you in this life itself. The world also supports FWB's, but what if you prove them wrong? Think with your own will, you grow a ladder, and there is no full stop. If you stop being friends with benefits, then you'll stop them from growing as well. They would have nothing to do and might die of jealousy.
Friends with benefits only teach you the ways of loving you to use you, being good with you on purpose, but not good enough to invest in you. Life always has a purpose, whether you fit this in your brain or not lies upon you. It's better to have platonic friends and love rather than having rats and snakes. Be a person that people want to be with, and not a friend with a purpose of benefit.
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